Comments on: How to Simplify your Living Expenses http://freegroceryoffers.com/free-grocery-coupons/how-to-simplify-your-living-expenses Thu, 02 Sep 2010 08:52:59 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.2 hourly 1 By: landwish http://freegroceryoffers.com/free-grocery-coupons/how-to-simplify-your-living-expenses/comment-page-1#comment-2289 landwish Mon, 08 Mar 2010 14:50:59 +0000 http://freegroceryoffers.com/free-grocery-coupons/how-to-simplify-your-living-expenses#comment-2289 I try to let them boss know I appreciate the guidance. If you're training, take notes and let her know you understand her point of veiw. Also, try not to take things personally if you're new. No one likes to be told they're doing something wrong, but try to be objective and not feel demoralized. You're not in grade school and you aren't going to get a sticker by your name if you do something right. You're expected to get things right and you have to motivate yourself. If your job really sucks, look for another one. Just remember, there are none out there that don't come with problems. Also, get yourself in school if you aren't already, so you can do more than just scrape by in the future. The stress isn't half as bad if you know you'll be moving on to bigger and better things eventully.<br><b>References : </b><br> I try to let them boss know I appreciate the guidance. If you’re training, take notes and let her know you understand her point of veiw. Also, try not to take things personally if you’re new. No one likes to be told they’re doing something wrong, but try to be objective and not feel demoralized. You’re not in grade school and you aren’t going to get a sticker by your name if you do something right. You’re expected to get things right and you have to motivate yourself.

If your job really sucks, look for another one. Just remember, there are none out there that don’t come with problems. Also, get yourself in school if you aren’t already, so you can do more than just scrape by in the future. The stress isn’t half as bad if you know you’ll be moving on to bigger and better things eventully.
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]]> By: haet_lyf http://freegroceryoffers.com/free-grocery-coupons/how-to-simplify-your-living-expenses/comment-page-1#comment-2288 haet_lyf Mon, 08 Mar 2010 14:48:59 +0000 http://freegroceryoffers.com/free-grocery-coupons/how-to-simplify-your-living-expenses#comment-2288 It's best to leave amicably. Like telling her off and leaving a trail of jelly on the floor to symbolize the trail of slime she leaves in her wake.<br><b>References : </b><br> It’s best to leave amicably. Like telling her off and leaving a trail of jelly on the floor to symbolize the trail of slime she leaves in her wake.
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]]> By: good luck http://freegroceryoffers.com/free-grocery-coupons/how-to-simplify-your-living-expenses/comment-page-1#comment-2287 good luck Mon, 08 Mar 2010 09:46:57 +0000 http://freegroceryoffers.com/free-grocery-coupons/how-to-simplify-your-living-expenses#comment-2287 <b>How does one go about handling a demoralizing trainer who's also your boss?</b><br>This job is my sole source of income, so I just keep my mouth shut. I really would like to tell her that I don't need this kind of demoralization. It's not going to help me get it any faster. But if she gave me clearer instructions without stammering it would simplify what is expected of me. But once I get home I get these physical reactions from the stress like a really bad inflammation in my mouth, a tooth / head ache. To me, it's just another job that barely covers my living expenses. I don't learn the best under oppression. Everything I don't know already is wrong. But if it never came up, then I am not going to know it. She expects me to go digging. She (my boss) is the owner. I think I'll try to summarize everything she's expecting of me and throw it back at her to see if there is anything I left out. Maybe I'm in the wrong business. I've been there for a month. I just don't fuss about the correct way to wrap a gift. I don't see the purpose of making me feel like a failure for everytime there is something I don't know or don't remember because nobody took the time. I'd like to be friends with my boss. But I cannot offer my friendship to someone who consistently demoralizes me. Yet I have to spend a considerable amount of hours with this person and keep emotionally cool, which feels unnatural. I had the notion that spending time with a person would entitle some kind of bond. I guess it doesn't have to be a positive one. I'm in it for the small change and for the lesson if I ever learn it. How does one go about handling a demoralizing trainer who's also your boss?
This job is my sole source of income, so I just keep my mouth shut. I really would like to tell her that I don’t need this kind of demoralization. It’s not going to help me get it any faster. But if she gave me clearer instructions without stammering it would simplify what is expected of me. But once I get home I get these physical reactions from the stress like a really bad inflammation in my mouth, a tooth / head ache. To me, it’s just another job that barely covers my living expenses. I don’t learn the best under oppression. Everything I don’t know already is wrong. But if it never came up, then I am not going to know it. She expects me to go digging. She (my boss) is the owner. I think I’ll try to summarize everything she’s expecting of me and throw it back at her to see if there is anything I left out.
Maybe I’m in the wrong business. I’ve been there for a month. I just don’t fuss about the correct way to wrap a gift. I don’t see the purpose of making me feel like a failure for everytime there is something I don’t know or don’t remember because nobody took the time. I’d like to be friends with my boss. But I cannot offer my friendship to someone who consistently demoralizes me. Yet I have to spend a considerable amount of hours with this person and keep emotionally cool, which feels unnatural. I had the notion that spending time with a person would entitle some kind of bond. I guess it doesn’t have to be a positive one. I’m in it for the small change and for the lesson if I ever learn it.

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