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I want some honest and answers. Please! Hello, I am met T 13 month ago Online. We have had happy times. I can say I care about him.
The Chemistry is good. BUT and here comes the BIG BUT. He has been showing some strong Emotional abusive tendency’s. I want to know what you guys think. Not just woman please guys feel free to answer this one as well. First of all, he stayed with me pretty much since Dec 08 till March 09. We spend allot ot time together. He met my daughters and they seemingly got along. BUT when he was here it was not so perfect anymore. My niece was here from Germany to visit me. I am German. And so we would talk German. He would say things like don’t talk so much German. My niece English ability is good but not super good. He actually asked me once to ask my niece in English , to come with me to the Lady’s room. I was absolutly confused. SO fare he made every Holiday miserable. Things did not go his way, he would pull me inside the bathroom and complain at me like I was seven years old. For Christmas me and my niece sat down for like an half hour to watch some UPN. She loves the black Culture. Is very fascinated by it. So we watched Black Television..this is when he came to me and ask me to switch the SHOW to a Christimas Movies…his words exaclty today is not Black Day. I found that very disgusting. He would get upset when I talked to my Ex/ father of my children/best friend about my family. He wanted to have all the News
before anybody else. But my sister, asked me not to disclose her Private Life to T because she does not trust him. T has been unemployeed since December He has helped out around the house.I know he tried to make up for all the mean comments.I have been supporting him, offering him free rent, groceries, free Utilities. I was paying that with my Ex’s Alimony. He was good enought to pay for T’s food but not for me and him to chat about my sister. I do not understand this man at all.
He says things like tell me that you love me! While he was here he was getting ver involved in my childrens Parenting. I asked him numerous times to stay out of it. And then when it got super bad I told him this is none of your buisness he would freak getting up pointing at me saying **** you…….This happend on serveral occasions. Once he said something really dumb….and I said to him in a joking way sometimes u need to think before u say stupid …and he got up looked at me and made me apologize…..between being called stupid woman..or sometimes oh you german….or **** you when I really pissed him off…..He makes me feel scared. He gives me looks that intimitdate me. He is not a good Example. He drove without a Seatbelt once when my kids were in the Car, he has trash he just thros it out the window. Regardless, of how large. My Ex just came back from Iraq and is staying with me he was shocked…after all the snow was melted he found the front lawn destroyed….100 Cigarrette Butts. Its looks horrible. Thrown into the neighbour yard. NOW T is moved out he moved in March. I could not take it any longer. My kids say they are happy he is gone. NOW please everybody tell me if I am overreacting that I am on a break with him….???? He seems to think soo…

I’m pretty sure that after writing this all down in one place and getting it off your chest when you look at it all at once, if you are a sane person at all, you will realize that you’ve answered your own question. This is not what a relationship is supposed to feel like, and if you want to set a good example for your children you will never stay with someone who doesn’t respect you and treat you right. You have to get out of that relationship fast, and make sure all your friends have your back and support you, because he is going to be mad.